You Didn't Hear It From Us: Two Bartenders Serve Women the Truth About Men, Making an Impression, and Getting What You Want

asked by motivations on November 1, 2006 11:38 AM

Ever wonder how the great flirts do it? How they manage to attract a man's attention, even in the distracting setting of a crowded bar? And then, once they've got it, how they keep him focused? The people standing behind the bar watch this game play out night after night. Now, two of the best in the business, Dushan Zaric and Jason Kosmas, are ready to spill all the secrets of the hookup game. In this groundbreaking book, they tell women everything they need to know to pick up men (the right men).

A good bartender doesn't just know how to mix drinks -- he knows how to read people, too. Dushan and Jason have witnessed every kind of hookup (and screwup) you can imagine. They know who is going to send over a drink before he even thinks of it. They can tell if a man's a bully, a loser, or gay as soon as he walks in the door. Most of all, they know what women have to do to make guys want to get their number.

Drawing on their own observations as well as surveys of their patrons, Dushan and Jason show women what men are really thinking and how to use that information to their advantage. They provide step-by-step advice on everything from how to approach a guy to how to tell if he's worth it, and how to make an exit if he's not.

Filled with street smarts, bar lore, and, of course, delicious cocktail recipes, You Didn't Hear It from Us is ultimately about more than dating -- it's about learning how to present the best parts of yourself, thus making the world your martini glass.

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I was really intrigued by this title and wanted to find out more. Well, that's exactly what I found out--more, lots more! These guys don't hold back on what really goes on and give you the lowdown and how to deal with men. It does tell you how to get what you want in a man and I found the whole book to be most helpful! Highly recommended, along with "Man Magnet", too.

reviewed by madfool on November 28, 2006 7:01 AM

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What a great read......its clear these two gentlemen have heard and seen it all. Buy the book and visit Employees Only (the establishment they own in the west village) and you have a killer combination . The advise to hook the man you want and the venue perfect for a date with devine food and cocktails. Why am i such a fan?? i met my man at Employees Only over a year ago so had to buy the book for sentimental reasons and everything i read made a hell of alot of sense!! GREAT XMAS GIFT FOR YOUR GIRLFRIENDS TOO!! Thanks boys for taking care of the ladiesx

reviewed by steelers on November 28, 2006 8:22 PM

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In the never-ending battle of the sexes, it's always a good idea to enter the arena with as much information about your opponent as possible. This book gives advice to women on what to do to get men. As a guy, it helps to know what things women are looking for and how to interpret the signals they are sending. Trust me on this one, the more information you have the better equipped you are to play the game. Reading this book is like spring training. It's not the majors, but it gets you ready for the real thing. Reading this book hasn't made me any better looking but it has made me smarter and that definitely translates into more success with the opposite sex.

I'd really like to thank Dushan and Jason for giving us guys more amunition for the battle. I know that guys aren't the intended audience, but I think they will get as much out of it as women will. And it's a refreshing change from the usual garbage that's directed towards women like "He's just not that into you", which just makes us all look like jerks.

reviewed by goonball on November 29, 2006 1:11 PM

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add a new book!