Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last this question feed

asked by selena on November 24, 2006 11:23 AM

If You Love Your Mate but Your Marriage Seems to Be Off Track, Then This Book Is for You

Psychologist John Gottman has spent 20 years studying what makes a marriage last. Now you can use his tested methods to evaluate, strengthen, and maintain your own long-term relationship. This breakthrough book guides you through a series of self-tests designed to help you determine what kind of marriage you have, where your strengths and weaknesses are, and what specific actions you can take to help your marriage.

You'll also learn:

* More sex doesn't necessarily improve a marriage

* Frequent arguing will not lead to divorce

* Financial problems do not always spell trouble in a relationship

* Wives who make sour facial expressions when their husbands talk are likely to be separated within four years

* There is a reason husbands withdraw from arguments -- and there's a way around it

Dr. Gottman tells you how to recognize attitudes that doom a marriage -- contempt, criticism, defensiveness, and stonewalling -- and provides practical exercises, quizzes, tips, and techniques that will help you understand and make the most of your relationship. You can avoid patterns that lead to divorce, and -- Why Marriages Succeed or Fail will show you how.




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Not as useful as his later work
reviewed by spiderman on November 28, 2006 3:12 AM

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This book is very similar to "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work : A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert". It almost seems like a first draft of the other book. Not as well organized or clearly written. It is a very good book, but I would recommend "The Seven Principles" over this one.
reviewed by waltersmith on November 28, 2006 7:32 AM

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This is one of my favorite relationship books. It really focuses on communication, and gives you real guidance on what to do, and what to watch out for, in your communication with your spouse. I asked my husband to read it after I had, and he very grudgingly accepted. Once he started reading it, however, he was quite impressed, and had many highlighters and sticky notes on his favorite parts. I highly recommend. Also, I suggest this over his "Seven Principles" book which I have also read. This seems more to be the real deal, and the "Seven Principles" more of a spin off.
reviewed by tacos on November 29, 2006 7:34 AM

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