The Scientist in the Crib: What Early Learning Tells Us About the Mind 
The Scientist in the Crib changes that. Standing on the relatively recent achievements of the young field of cognitive science (pointing out that not so long ago, babies were considered only slightly animate vegetables--"carrots that could cry"), the authors succinctly and articulately sum up the state of what's now known about children's minds and how they learn. Using language that's both friendly and smart (and using equally accessible metaphors, everything from Scooby-Doo to The Third Man), The Scientist in the Crib explores how babies recognize and understand their fellow humans, interpret sensory input, absorb language, learn and devise theories, and take part in building their own brains.
Such science makes for great reading, but will likely prove even more useful to readers with a scientist in their own crib, acting as tonic to pseudoscientific how-to baby books that recommend everything "from flash cards, to Mozart tapes, to Better Baby Institutes." As the authors put it, "We want to understand children, not renovate them." --Paul Hughes
Reviews
This book by serious scientists who are also devoted and observant parents hits the sweet spot!
If you are looking for yet another book of opinions on how to raise kids, keep looking. This book describes scientifically repeatable findings, using techniques some of which you can replicate (...you might not have access to an MRI device, but you can play with your own child's concept of "gone" ...)
50 pages of notes for people who want to dig deeper into the research! 15 pages of index for people in a hurry! Amusing anecdotes to lift the tedium of careful analysis.
This is a book for any thoughtful and curious parent. It is NOT a "how-to" ... more of a "why it works".
