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asked by drvale on November 17, 2006 8:24 AM

The acclaimed spiritual memoir from the author of The Secret Life of Bees

I was amazed to find that I had no idea how to unfold my spiritual life in a feminine way. I was surprised and, in fact, a little terrified when I found myself in the middle of a feminist spiritual reawakening.

Sue Monk was a "conventionally religious, churchgoing woman, a traditional wife and mother" with a thriving career as a Christian writer until she began to question her role as a woman in her culture, her family, and her church. From a jarring encounter with sexism in a suburban drugstore to monastery retreats and rituals in the caves of Crete, Kidd takes readers through the fear, anger, healing, and transformation of her awakening. Retaining a meaningful connection "with the deep song of Christianity," she opens the door for traditional Christian women to discover a spirituality that speaks directly to them and provides inspiring wisdom for all who struggle to embrace their full humanity.




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I bought this book because I began a spiritual awakening of my own about a year ago. I firmly believe in the power of story as a way for us to relate our own experience to that of others--from that we learn, we cope, we identify, we grow. Regardless of where our journey takes us, there are vital milestones we can share with each other. That is what Kidd's book is to me.

The author shares a deeply personal and spiritual journey. Kidd discovers that her Christian life is not fulfilling, so she embraces the Feminine Divine. Kidd's story provides the same opportunity for enlightenment regardless of whether you choose a Christian or non-Christian path. This hope, that women find their inner strength and beauty, and then spread that strength and beauty, can be moving and life-changing for anyone, if you are ready and open to the experience.

One thing I appreciate about Kidd's book is that she doesn't tell you what's right and what's wrong. She challenges you to empower yourself to seek your own truth, to seek your own feminine balance. I agree with another reviewer that she sometimes makes some sweeping generalizations. And, although I identified with many aspects of her story, I did find that her focus on feminine oppression was a bit much for me.

I have purchased this book as a gift for all of my closest girlfriends. I hope they capture half as much peace and meaning from Kidd's words as I did. My personal journey is not the same as Kidd's, but I am grateful for the light she has shed on the path.
reviewed by csean85 on November 28, 2006 8:41 PM

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When will we learn to let God out of the box of our narrowmindedness as Sue has done so beautifully in her story?
reviewed by benzdrives on November 29, 2006 12:49 AM

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A bit cheesey... I felt like I was reading a fluffed up self-help book! If you are a fan of The Da Vinci Code looking for more information on the lost sacred feminine, this book will be of little help. I bought it because I thought it would be an interesting way to absorb some facts, but I found it to be a simplistic, repetetive, overly-idealized account of a woman's "rebirth". I couldn't even finish it!

While its okay as a light read, it won't satisfy your want of solid religious/historical information.
reviewed by success06 on November 29, 2006 2:28 AM

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I did enjoy The Dance of the Dissident Daughter. The author's journey was clearly genuine, and I couldn't agree more with the sentiment expressed: Orthodox Christianity has systematically suppressed expressions of the Feminine Divine, to the point of suppressing all feminine power and feminine voices. The time is ripe for a change.

As much as I empathized with her, however, I found the writing less than engaging. Kidd spends much time detailing every twist and turn of her spiritual journey, in prose far below the quality of that found in her fictional work. She is particuarly fond of narrating events which clearly have enormous personal significance to her (encounters with wild animals, dream sequences), but which fall flat when transcribed.

I was also not impressed with her scholarship. While the book is certainly not meant as feminist academic work, I had hoped that the level of her discussion would leave the strictly introductory, which it did not.

On the whole, while less than brilliant, the book is well worth reading- especially if you're a fan of Sue Monk Kidd, a Christian, a feminist, a spiritual seeker, or some combination of the above.
reviewed by iconfess on November 29, 2006 1:27 PM

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