Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect, and Communicate with Your Baby this question feed

asked by 90210 on November 25, 2006 5:56 PM
The last thing new parents can find time for is quiet reading, so many helpful books on infant care rely on bullet points and a "let's get to the point" writing style. Tracy Hogg, a neonatal nurse, teacher, and mother of two, uses these techniques to good effect in Secrets of the Baby Whisperer. Focusing on newborns and their parents, her simple programs are a blend of intelligent intuition and methods based on years of experience. The first half of the book is devoted to E.A.S.Y--her name for creating a structured daily routine for you and your baby that makes the most of your baby's awake times and also leaves time just for you. These concepts aren't designed to force your bundle of joy into not following her body's needs, but rather to create a feasible middle ground between total rigidity and on-demand food and sleep (and no time for mom to shower). If it still strikes you as too regimented, keep reading. The author makes room for differences in personal style and includes short quizzes to determine whether you're a "planner" or a "winger", and what level of daily structure you are likely to find helpful. In the same chapter, she identifies five general temperaments of infants, how to get an accurate feel for yours, and what methods of care are likely to be the most effective for his temperament. Her statement that babies prefer routine is backed up by research from the University of Denver. While most of the book relies on anecdotes to get the points across, Hogg does find room to back up some of her statements with quotes from various researchers and institutions. Included at the end of the book are assurances that E.A.S.Y. can be followed even with a colicky baby or one who's been ruling the roost for the first few months. Frustrated parents might like to read the last page first: "all the baby-whispering advice in the world is useless unless you're having a good time being a parent" is an excellent reminder to enjoy this time with all of its ups and downs. --Jill Lightner


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I purchased this book on a recommendation from a friend when my daughter was about 3 months old. I simply could not put it down, even though I was so tired all the time. I read and followed all her advice and found her to be common sense, practical and just brilliant. Her insight and advice made all the difference for me as a first time mom. I had my baby sleeping through the night in 3 days!! I have recommended this book to many first time moms and purchased many copies as gifts. Her web-site is also phenomenal. This is a must have for any mom, even if you have older children.
reviewed by learner on November 26, 2006 8:02 PM

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The E.A.S.Y. helped me understand how to get out of the bad habit of having the baby need to eat (she's really only interested in the sucking) in order to fall asleep (so that I could stop being the human pacifier). I like how she helps identify when the baby is tired and also tips regarding the pacifier. I related less to the "baby needs to sleep in the same exact way every time" since I think it's important for the baby to (if possible) be able to fall asleep in different places - daycare, home, night, day, restaurant, traveling, etc. but then again, our baby has (so far) turned out to be an angel (at abour 2.5 months).
reviewed by davedriver on November 28, 2006 5:56 PM

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