I really enjoyed reading this book. Even though you think you know who safe people are, sometimes you are blinded. Dr. Henry Cloud has a great way of making sense of everything and helps put everything into perspective. I was so into this book that I couldn't put it down and finished reading this in one day. Hence, I purchased three more of his books.

I'm not even going to read this book. You can tell it's American from the title. I've been involved with several "unsafe" people in my life and have learnt from them. Grow up and get a life people, instead of looking down on those who are different or less fortunate than yourselves.

Was Jesus a "safe" person? I don't think so!

I read this book a while ago, and I think I liked it so much I read it too fast :) But I see on here that there are some not so good reviews. I thought this book was fantastic! If you are familiar with Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend, you are familiar with their biblicaly backed up work. In this book, they explore what makes an unsafe person, how we attract unsafe people, and how to find safe people. Another "problem to solution" book of theirs. They give a solution after breaking down the problem. After reading this book, I realized that some of the realationships in my life were unsafe and why. This book gave me courage to let go of these unsafe relationships or challenge them. To some people, determining safe people comes easy, but it doesnt always come easy to me. I may have an internal inkling that something isnt right, but I dont know why or how to solve it. This book is helpful in that regard.