Red Flags: How to Know When You're Dating a Loser 
Sure he's gorgeous, funny, and charming--but early in any doomed relationship there are warning signals foretelling the bad news to come. Studies show that most women will try to justify these signs, excusing them so they don't interfere with their fantasy of having met the perfect man. Unfortunately, such signs are usually all too prophetic--they are the essence of what Drs. Gary Aumiller and Daniel Goldfarb call "Red Flags." The question then becomes how to detect and respond to a Red Flag before it's too late. This first-of-its-kind book will help readers determine a man's all-important "loser potential" within the first three dates.
Each chapter includes a profile of a different loser, a post-date quiz to help you determine if Mr. Right is Mr. Wrong, and important information about the best way to break up with him. Red Flags has all the fun of a magazine quiz combined with the expertise of psychologists who specialize in the techniques used by the police to profile criminals. They know how to spot the rejects--and now you will, too!
"After reading Red Flags you'll never be stuck in a bad relationship again. Thank you, Doctors Aumiller and Goldfarb, for writing the book every dating woman needs!"--Sharyn Wolf, author of Guerrilla Dating Tactics
Reviews
Regardless, I found it rather useful. I tend to believe that 'our society' tends to normalize a lot of innapropriate dating behaviors (of men and women alike), and this book helps point them out.
Can't say I'm disappointed.
Any women who dates should be aware of these loser types.
I'd like to meet a single man or woman in the world, who doesn't have at least one characteristic described in this book as being a complete loser quality. I'd bet the authors themselves would be considered losers if they applied this bookýs simplistic judgment to their own lives. HINT: Destructive judgment of other people comes from a lack of self esteem on the part of the judge.
Face it, everyone has strengths and weaknesses. If you keep thinking you are going to find the PERFECT mate, you will be lonely for the rest of your life. HINT: A part of real love is about sacrifice. But I'd bet most people in today's society don't have the foggiest idea what that means. So sad.
The title of this book should be "How to Blame Everyone Else for Your Own Loser Life." No wonder people are so unhappy. HINT: You can only truly love someone else, if you love yourself first. You can't give to someone else what you don't have for yourself. And loving yourself requires that you know yourself well, including your own faults and weaknesses. Only then can you begin to love others, and tolerate their own shortcomings.
But I'd bet most people who indulge in a book like this are too cowardly to take a good look at themselves, because they wouldn't like what they'd see. So they just judge other people so they can feel good about themselves. Now that's a loser.
One last thought, if you date losers, have you considered that you might be a loser yourself?