Momma Zen: Walking the Crooked Path of Motherhood 
asked by motivations on November 5, 2006 10:03 AM
Combining humor, honesty, and plainspoken advice, Momma Zen distills the doubts and frustrations of early parenting into vignettes of Zen wisdom. Drawing on the author's long-term practice of meditation, and inspired by her own struggles as a first-time mother, Momma Zen explores the timeless inner lessons of parenthood. The narrative follows the timeline of early motherhood from pregnancy through toddlerhood. The author takes readers on a transformative journey, charting her own growth beyond her naive expectations, sense of isolation, and disorientation to finding fulfillment in ordinary tasks, developing greater self-awareness and acceptance, and gradually discovering "maternal bliss," a state of happiness and ease. Each chapter opens with a classical Zen teaching story, koan, Zen poem, or Zen saying that encapsulates the lesson addressed in the chapter. Just as Zen wisdom is drawn from experience, Momma Zen captures the kind of wisdom that real mothers wring from their real livesârecognizably true, accessible, and empowering. Along the way, Miller explores the "hot topics" of contemporary parenting including discipline, television, materialism, attachment vs. independence, and nurturing one's marriage after having children. Chapter titles include Night WatchâA meditation on sleeplessness Small FailuresâWhy there are no mistakes in motherhood, even the unforgivable ones Living ChangeâEverything changes. How quickly can you? Trusting YourselfâIn parenting, knowing nothing is knowing everything No ExitâHow to embrace the challenges and complexities of motherhood and find real happiness
Reviews
"Momma Zen" is a book to come back to again and again. I dip into it whenever I am having a difficult day, or just seeking inspiration during a quiet moment. Usually I gobble books cover-to-cover, but Karen Maezen Miller's work is wonderful when savored in small bites. "Momma Zen" reads like a series of thougthtful discussions with a wise friend.
Motherhood is full of uncertainty, reversals, and discovery. "Momma Zen" is a wonderful companion on this journey. Whether you are an expectant first-time mother or the a seasoned Mom, this book has something for you. I recognize myself in every chapter.
We live in an era where an avalanche of advice books can feel overwhelming. "Momma Zen" takes a different approach by connecting with the heart of motherhood--the enduring, essential challenges, lessons and blessings that we encounter in relationship with our children. Karen Maezen Miller's work is a true gift to give yourself or a friend.
Motherhood is full of uncertainty, reversals, and discovery. "Momma Zen" is a wonderful companion on this journey. Whether you are an expectant first-time mother or the a seasoned Mom, this book has something for you. I recognize myself in every chapter.
We live in an era where an avalanche of advice books can feel overwhelming. "Momma Zen" takes a different approach by connecting with the heart of motherhood--the enduring, essential challenges, lessons and blessings that we encounter in relationship with our children. Karen Maezen Miller's work is a true gift to give yourself or a friend.
reviewed by success06 on November 21, 2006 3:39 AM
I found this book comforting, reassuring and humorous. As a working mom with a 22-month old, the sections on discipline, simplicity and perspective spoke the most loudly to me.
This book reminded me that that none of my experiences to date are all that unique (ie neither me nor my child are freaks of nature). I like the index provided at the end of the book--as our lives change, it will serve as a handy reference tool.
This book reminded me that that none of my experiences to date are all that unique (ie neither me nor my child are freaks of nature). I like the index provided at the end of the book--as our lives change, it will serve as a handy reference tool.
reviewed by stix on November 21, 2006 3:47 AM
I am a new Mom and with all of the books out there on motherhood and parenting, it's hard to find one that is as wonderful as this little gem and not preachy or giving you all kinds of impractical advice.
It's funny, insightful, and spiritual. It's simply a beautiful book. I would recommend it to anyone and everyone, even my husband has enjoyed the pieces that have really touched me and I have shared with him!
Truly excellent!!!
It's funny, insightful, and spiritual. It's simply a beautiful book. I would recommend it to anyone and everyone, even my husband has enjoyed the pieces that have really touched me and I have shared with him!
Truly excellent!!!
reviewed by macfan on November 24, 2006 3:05 PM
I just ordered three more copies of this beautiful book to share with friends. Karen's book gently reminds me to have faith and trust in my mothering. She reminds me that I am doing my best even when I don't think I am. What a beautiful gift to all mothers. As a mother of a six year old, I loved it. My sister, a brand new mother, loved it too. Thank you Karen for writing this book.
reviewed by stix on November 29, 2006 9:49 AM
