Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You 
asked by artdealer on October 30, 2006 4:09 AM
Have you given up on love in a marriage gone stale? Are you seeking commitment in a world of footloose men? Whether you're married, engaged, or single and looking, Ellen Kreidman's 7-step guide shows you how to have a love affair with the man of your choice for the rest of your life. Discover:
Why men fall in love -- and how to make him fall in love all over again...with you.
Fifty-one foolproof ways to keep his fire lit.
How to make your man a sex object -- he'll love it!
How to put fun, growth, thrills, and communication into your relationship.
How to make him feel so special you'll always be the one-and-only woman in his life.
Join the thousands who have learned the secret of keeping passion alive and the joy of love that lasts a lifetime.
Why men fall in love -- and how to make him fall in love all over again...with you.
Fifty-one foolproof ways to keep his fire lit.
How to make your man a sex object -- he'll love it!
How to put fun, growth, thrills, and communication into your relationship.
How to make him feel so special you'll always be the one-and-only woman in his life.
Join the thousands who have learned the secret of keeping passion alive and the joy of love that lasts a lifetime.
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I recently bought this and its companion, "Light His Fire : How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With you".
The advice in this one made, me feel pretty good- brilliant in fact. I had thought of most of the ideas, but they never really worked for my husband. He doesn't seem that impressed by having cookies sent to him at work. It is something a woman would like to have done for her, but the problem is men and women aren't the same. That is why we would buy a book like this- right?
The advice in its companion made for men who want to please their women has started a few conversations. My husband has enjoyed heckling it, and that has caused a few hurt feelings. It is just close enough to the truth in many ways that I feel heckled too, but not close enough to the truth to help. This reminds me of one of those articles written with the help of gay men to help women understand the men they love. It seems like a good idea, but it doesn't work.
In conclusion- If you are a man who wants to get even more confused by women, buy "How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You". If you are a woman with no creativity, buy, "Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With you". Otherwise, try something else. If you find something that really works, please let me know!
The advice in this one made, me feel pretty good- brilliant in fact. I had thought of most of the ideas, but they never really worked for my husband. He doesn't seem that impressed by having cookies sent to him at work. It is something a woman would like to have done for her, but the problem is men and women aren't the same. That is why we would buy a book like this- right?
The advice in its companion made for men who want to please their women has started a few conversations. My husband has enjoyed heckling it, and that has caused a few hurt feelings. It is just close enough to the truth in many ways that I feel heckled too, but not close enough to the truth to help. This reminds me of one of those articles written with the help of gay men to help women understand the men they love. It seems like a good idea, but it doesn't work.
In conclusion- If you are a man who wants to get even more confused by women, buy "How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With You". If you are a woman with no creativity, buy, "Light His Fire: How to Keep Your Man Passionately and Hopelessly in Love With you". Otherwise, try something else. If you find something that really works, please let me know!
reviewed by allnet on October 31, 2006 4:52 PM
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The book, I'm sure, is well-intentioned, but overly simplistic and one-sided. On her website, Dr Kreidman even recommends her work as a replacement for marriage counseling for seriously troubled marriages. I have to whole-heartedly disagree, this is a dangerous notion. I purchased both the "his fire" and "her fire" books after reading all the wonderful reviews here, and the promises made on the author's website. I am unbelievably disappointed. As a woman who was just told by her husband that he wants an open marriage and is not attracted to me anylonger because I'm not in my early twenties anymore, I'm having trouble with the concept that I'm the one who should stroke his ego, plan sex-adventures, and never judge him, in order to win his love. That's pretty much the last thing I want to do. The author gives absolutely no validation to the woman's point of view, feelings, etc, she only talks about how the woman should adjust to the man's needs. Her suggestions might work to bring excitement into an otherwise dull, but functioning relationship, but when there is true heartbreak and years of anger and frustration involved, her suggestion to dress up like a hotel maid in order to turn on the husband is less than helpful. Good luck to everyone else!
reviewed by fabio on November 23, 2006 2:52 AM