Ex-Etiquette for Parents: Good Behavior After a Divorce or Separation 
asked by megafan on November 19, 2006 3:17 PM
Written for both biological parents and stepparents, this helpful guide provides the tools necessary to raising well-adjusted children after a stressful divorce. Innovative in its technique and cowritten by a certified divorce and stepfamily expert and her own stepchildren's mother, this etiquette book provides an authentic guide for ex-spouses to interact on a civil and healthy level. Sample conversation for everyday scenarios help exes create a positive environment and ensure the mental and physical well-being of the children. Whether it's coordinating discipline between households, introducing a new partner, dealing with late child support payments, or providing a regular schedule for children, this guide empowers parents to change what they can—their attitudes and communication skills. In doing so, divorced parents can increase their self-esteem and personal growth and emerge confident that they can handle awkward situations and powerful emotions while keeping the children's best interests a priority.
Reviews
I can't say enough good things about this book. After reading it, it's the first time I feel like I can constuctively talk to my ex about our children since we were divorced four years ago. I wish I had found it sooner.
reviewed by alec on November 21, 2006 10:44 AM
This book was not useful to me, just starting the process of divorce. It focuses on the time period after one or both parties have entered into new relationships, and how all parties can get along. Perhaps it will be useful in the future, but not at this point. I wish the reviews and summaries had been more clear about the subject matter of the book.
reviewed by siriusfanboy on November 26, 2006 8:33 PM
Hi,
I am in a three person situation.
After reading this I saw that my feeling angry was normal, as were alot of her feeling but how we express the anger is what's important especially when kids are involved. This book I have lent to my partner and he also gave it 5 stars. It gave me reassurance to see that things get better with time and this book will carry my through the rest of my life and the ups and downs that are to come in this situation.
I only wish all parties would read this book.
I am in a three person situation.
After reading this I saw that my feeling angry was normal, as were alot of her feeling but how we express the anger is what's important especially when kids are involved. This book I have lent to my partner and he also gave it 5 stars. It gave me reassurance to see that things get better with time and this book will carry my through the rest of my life and the ups and downs that are to come in this situation.
I only wish all parties would read this book.
reviewed by miceandmen on November 29, 2006 10:03 AM
I am a clinical social worker, in practice for over thirty five years now. I recently saw Jann Blackstone-Ford and Sharyl Jupe, authors of Ex-Etiquette for Parents: Good Behavior After a Divorce or Separation, interviewed on Good Morning America, and decided to take a look at their book. It's impressive. Most of my practice is devoted to marriage counseling and working with divorced families. I wish I had a copy of this book to hand out to every divorcing couple with children. The book is clear, concise, easily understood. More importantly, it espouses all the values and teaches all the skills I hope my clients walk out of my office with. It will certainly be a "must read" recommendation. It's a long overdue, and very inspiring work!
reviewed by stix on November 29, 2006 11:51 AM
